{"id":3433,"date":"2014-08-07T17:15:19","date_gmt":"2014-08-07T17:15:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/really.zonky.org\/?p=3433"},"modified":"2014-08-07T17:15:19","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T17:15:19","slug":"whats-with-the-anti-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/really.zonky.org\/?p=3433","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s With The Anti-Social Media?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s a bit of an anti-social media buzz around at the moment &#8211; apparently we&#8217;re not communicating properly if we&#8217;re not doing it in person, via phone, or by letter. There&#8217;s even a fairly popular video going around Facebook moaning about how we don&#8217;t communicate properly which I unfortunately cannot find a link to right now.<\/p>\n<p>But what&#8217;s so bad about using technology to communicate?<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s get a few things settled to begin with :-<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Letters are just 19th century emails.<\/li>\n<li>Telegrams are just 19th century texts or instant messages.<\/li>\n<li>Phone calls are just 19th century (stretching a point here) voice chats.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Just because a technology is old doesn&#8217;t make it right; just because a technology is old doesn&#8217;t make it wrong.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no arguing with the fact that communicating in the flesh as it were, is a much more complete form of communication than anything else. Take moving into a new place for example, someone who helps you move in by helping move the furniture is going to get a much better grasp of what your new home is like than someone who just sees a few snaps that you&#8217;ve tweeted.<\/p>\n<p>But not everyone can be there helping you move in :-<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>They could be stuck at work and unable to take the day off.<\/li>\n<li>They could be living on the other side of the planet &#8211; are you going to pay their travel costs?<\/li>\n<li>They could be physically limited and unable to handle the moving furniture bit.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>But tweet a pic, and they&#8217;ll be able to share some part of the experience.<\/p>\n<p>Now let&#8217;s assume you&#8217;re obsessed with physical keyboards (or any other unusual interest). Do the people around you share your obsession? Or do you have to visit specialist forums\/groups\/etc. to communicate with your fellow enthusiasts?<\/p>\n<p>And not everyone finds it easy to communicate in a physical context :-<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>People who are house-bound find it difficult to make new physical acquaintances &#8211; should they stick a sign outside their front door saying &#8220;Lonely person fancies a chat.&#8221;, and would\u00a0<em>you<\/em> respond to that?<\/li>\n<li>There&#8217;s a whole bunch of &#8220;differently normal&#8221; people (specifically those with <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Autism_spectrum_disorder\">ASD<\/a>) who may find physical communication impossible, difficult, or just rather boring who will gain a great deal more by communicating electronically.<\/li>\n<li>Most of us have old acquaintances that we&#8217;re too busy to communicate &#8220;fully&#8221; with, but we&#8217;re definitely interested to see that they&#8217;re still alive and getting up to fun stuff.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Using technology\u00a0<em>enhances<\/em> our communication options. We can\u00a0<em>choose<\/em> to use those options, or not. Just as we can\u00a0<em>choose<\/em> to emphasise physical presence or not.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s a bit of an anti-social media buzz around at the moment &#8211; apparently we&#8217;re not communicating properly if we&#8217;re not doing it in person, via phone, or by letter. 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